We live in a visual, “SEX SELLS” society, and I’m aware of that, but why do age and beauty SOMETIMES matter more than talent? I mean, seriously. I’m not saying there aren’t plenty of beautiful people that sing like birds, and this is a case-by-case thing, because there are plenty of gorgeous and talented people, so no one jump down my throat. I’m just trying to get a handle on the situation.
Someone sent me a link to a discussion the other day guessing country singers’ ages on Velvet Rope. I was like, “Oh Lord, here we go again.” Readers were saying that artists are skirting the age issue too frequently, and that it is annoying. One response was, “Why can’t everyone just tell their real age?” Well, hun, you wanna know why? Because people like you, who are all TOO concerned about how old someone is versus their talent, probably wouldn’t buy a record that a 17-year-old made, even though she was the spitting vocal identity of Patsy Cline or Loretta Lynn.
People just push and push about age, which I think should be an irrelevant subject. Does it really matter if I’m 20 or 50? If you like my music, what difference does it make? If you like it, are you gonna buy my records? If you don’t like it, then I think you should buy one for all your friends, then have a listening party and a discussion. HA!
I think it’s so cool that traditional country crosses so many age barriers. It amazes me nightly, because I thought my fans would be older white males that used to and still only listen to Kitty Wells and Loretta Lynn. But our fans start at 3 and go to 80. I also think it’s ridiculous that someone’s age and the way they look should matter more than the way they sound. I got this Hank Williams acoustic album the other day. That’s what music is to me – when someone can entertain you with acoustic music as much as they can with a full band, such as Dwight Yoakam’s acoustic CD and Jack Ingram’s acoustic CD.
Back in the day, before there were music videos and magazines, you had no IDEA what any of these folks looked like unless you saw them at a concert or on their record cover. The other day a male friend said to me, “Have you heard so-and-so’s new single? She is so hot!” What does HOT have to do with hearing it? I mean, there were plenty of “hotties” back in the day (Leona Williams, Jeannie C. Riley and her mini skirts, Loretta, Dolly Parton, Waylon Jennings, Merle Haggard, Tammy Wynette and her necklines), but that’s not all that mattered. What mattered were the songs they were singing with their unique voices that you can pick out from across the room.
There’s nothing wrong with living in a beautiful world, but IS THAT ALL THAT MATTERS? What gives??