My Big Redneck Wedding 3: Sandra and Dave
Sandra and Dave were married on the hit CMT show My Big Redneck Wedding. They write about their big day.
I got married! Our wedding day was one of the best days of our lives. Everyone who attended said it was the best wedding they have ever been to. Everything went pretty smooth. I wasn't very nervous nor was Dave, but that may of had to do with us having a buzz. There is one thing I would like to mention and that is my camera was stolen off the bridal table during the reception and I really don't care about the camera but on the memory card was the pictures my daughter took. Those were the memories she wanted from my special day. And though I have over 950 pictures, none of them can replace the ones that my daughter took, like me getting my hair done and me and my daughter in the limo and her helping me get ready. My only hope is that one day someone will return the memory card. I could care less about the camera, I can replace that. Gotta go -- my husband and I have a game of Naked Duck Duck Goose to play!
Sandra






Lisa says:
Hey, i watched your wedding on CMT… very interesting. So who was the dedication for at the end of the show? it went so fast that it couldn’t really be read and so we didn’t know who it was for. We’d love to know!
Penny says:
hey, we really enjoyed watching the wedding on cmt my son duck hunts an has all the duck calls,. we thought the wedding was very funny,.. also was wondering who the show was dedicated to? an do they really get paid anything for these shows,..? thanks
Tricia says:
OH MY GAWD! You guys did it good! Congrats Sandy and Dave! LMFAO! Sorry I missed this one. Wow, I wouldve never have imagined….you guys are crazy! I knew you two would end up together after all these years! Congrats again! Love yas!
lolhorse6375 says:
That show is funny!
Kimberly says:
that was a really good wedding congrat and i was wondering where you got your camo wedding bands at because im getting married in june and i would love to have them so please let me know where i can go and get some from thanks Kim….
KARI says:
I too, want to know where you got the camo wedding bands.
terri wittig says:
your show was the first show that i have seen on my big redneck wedding. i loved how you put it toghether and how it turned out for you. i know how it was cause i myself is on episode . i lost my dog, but your tragedy was far more losed then mine. sorry for all. and i love how they put the dedication in at the end. you do the have the memories and you got what you wished for. im glad you had it your way, redneck style. glad for you and sorry for you loss…ladybronco(terri)
Mary says:
Thank you so much for dedicating the show at the end to my wonderful cousin Mark Ward who passed away last year. It was great to see him one more time. The wedding was so wonderful. It was really cool to see places I used to go when I lived up there.
redneckgirl says:
Love the show congrats on the wedding my wedding is comeing up this summer and we are haveing a redneck wedding. I was wonting to know what jeweler it was the made your wedding band. Because I would like to get in contact with them to make on for me it would be of a rebel flag. congrats aging and good luck in the furture
COUNTRY says:
Your wedding was beyond beautiful!!! I LOVED YOUR DRESS!!! The Duck blind alter just looked wonderful like yall put alot into it. Every detail was clever and classy for redneck, even the shot-gun shell strand, limo, boats, everything. Congratulations!!! I was wondering what the toast was you said at the reception? Something like Here’s to the man i kiss last, i did not kiss him pretty, i did not kiss him fast,… i was blown away by it but for the life of me i cannot remember it.. please help! Best Wishes.. Amanda “Country”
Ashley says:
I was looking for that toast too, I thought it was cute and very appropriate. Here it is..
“Here’s to the man that I kissed last,
I didn’t kiss him slow, I didn’t kiss him fast,
I kissed him so nice, I kissed him so sweet,
I made stand what didn’t have feet.”
sandy says:
Here is a toast to the guy I kissed last I didn’t kiss him slow and I didn’t kiss him fast but I kissed him so pretty and I kissed him so sweet I made things stand that didn’t have feet
maybenot says:
I was wondering if we know who the dedication was for.
Marie Edwards says:
Where did ya’ll find ya’ll camoflauge wedding rings at?
sandy says:
The show was dedicated to Dave’s bestman Mark he was killed in a motorcycle accident in just a few weeks after the wedding. We really miss him he was truly the bestman.
sandy says:
The rings were from the jewelry store at St.Claire square in O’fallon IL
Jojodemo says:
Y’all did it up good! Thanks and best wishes..redneck style! Rest in Peace Mark.
KARI says:
Sandy - do you you know the name of the store? Please and thanks!!!
Gary says:
Sandy and Dave,
Congratulations!!!! Gail Jean from Oklahoma told me about your wedding…going to try to catch it tmr night! Hope to see you in June/July at the reunion! This is your cousin btw…
May you find peace in all you do!
Gary
cheryl says:
sandy i think that really sucks that someone would steal your memories from you like that. i really think your wedding was a blast you look like ya”ll are very happy, and i loved the duck,duck,goose. congrads!!!!!
georgia girl
sandy says:
the name of the store is jc jewelry and repair
marc g. says:
I won’t to duck hunt with dave from texas. R.IP. MARK
Pamela says:
I watched the show and it was GREAT!!!
I was wondering where they got their rings made. My husband and I are camo fans and wouldn’t mind have a set. Hope someone can let me know.
PC
Thelma M. says:
I loved this wedding idea!! CMT really outdid itself with this show. My husband and I would have loved to have a camo wedding, maybe we will have a re-wedding in camo for our vows! I am gonna look for a dress, but I have ordered the camo wedding rings for my husband and I online, at camoring,com
Congrats and good luck in marriage.
Thelma from Ohio.
Angela says:
The weddig was great and I to was a fan of the rings. I’m not from Illinois but would love to have the number to the jewelry store that made the camo. rings. Hope you and Dave live love and be happy forever.
Shelly says:
Congrats…I too was a fan of the camo rings. My fiance’ and I would like to know where to get them. He too is an avid duck hunter and we want to have a camo themed wedding. Any ideas or helpful tips? Good luck and God bless.
KARI says:
I believe Sandy said jc jewelry and repair in St.Claire square in O’fallon IL
Is this right Sandy? I don’t want to be telling people wrong! I REALLY appreciate your help!
Heather says:
I wanted to say Congrat’s on your wedding and WOW the dedication at the end was really fast. I looked to make sure that it wasnt one of you two. I am sorry for your loss. I loved your wedding. This is the first time that I have written anything to anyone from the show but your wedding was one of the best that I have seen on here. I have been married almost 10 years to my Sweety. You both did it Country but also didnt make REDNECKS look stupid. I wish you all the love and happiness in the world. Good luck and OH yeah Happy Hunting!!
Heather
Fort Lee, Virgina
Antoinette says:
I can’t believe it, I was flipping through the channels and my husband says stop…go back…I really didn’t want to watch redneck weddings, but couldn’t resist since I am from Cottage Hills and my husband noticed that you all were from Woodriver, IL….so where did you get married exactly? I was quite a bizarre and unusual event….but I liked the fact that it was different. Sorry for the loss of your friend Mark and I too hope that someone will give you your memory card back, maybe it was taken by accident….perhaps someone could just mail it to you…maybe you should set up a p.o. box so that they could mail it to you. Good luck and congratulations.
Hope Phillilps says:
Watched your wedding on T.V. It was awesome. We would really like to know where you guys got the camo rings? I would imagine that you have had several request for that. If you would be willing to share that information it would be greatly appreciated. We wish you many, many years of happiness.
Yogi says:
I loved your wedding theme it was so beautiful.
It proved that you can have a tasteful redneck wedding.
Thank you for sharing your big day with us. I know that
God has wrapped his arms around you and your family
after the loss of Mark. Lean on him. I do believe also
that you will get back your memory card/camera.
Thanks again!
Yogi
Danielle says:
Sandy, Your wedding was great! I loved the duck hunting theme. I too had a camo wedding last month. We had camo wedding bands made for us online from Camoring. I think that must have been wear your were from too. My husband says that was the only ring he would wear and he is still wearing it!! I have a girlfriend and she is planning a Camouflage wedding in June in the woods near her house. Anyway, best of luck to the both of ya.
Jo says:
Hi Sandy,
Nice redneck wedding! :-) I actually viewed it on my phone lol The Dedication to your friend Mark was very sweet but went by so fast, and because the picture on my phone was so small I could not read what it said. Finally, because I couldn’t stop thinking that maybe it was one of the two of you, I had to log onto CMT.com to try and find out. I am so sorry to learn of your friend’s passing. Our lives are precious and fleeting and I’ve learned, after losing my husband at the age of 37 to hold close the people that are dearest to me.
Take care of each other…and Godspeed for a long and happy life together.
Much Love,
Jo
PS. Were you able to have your memory card returned to you?
I do hope you find it!
Jake says:
I’m Fairview Heights, IL. The name of the jewelry store where the rings came from is called J.C.’s Jewelry & Repair. It’s in the mall in Fairview Heights, IL. They’ve done work for me and the work they do is second to none.
candy says:
CONGRATS!!!!! you all really know how to have a wedding. Watch the show all the time and I think every wedding is very special. I hope to have my redneck wedding asap, we are ready. Interested in being on the show actually!! LOL Anyhow, Hope yall spend many happy hillbilly, redneck years together.
hsg says:
Just watched the wedding……who was the dedication for at the end??……it was too fast to see anything other than the pic!
PEARLAC2 says:
GREAT WEDDING I’M HAVEING A CAMO WEDDING BUT WHERE DO YOU GET CAMO WEDDING BANDS PLEASE LET ME KNOW
Tammy says:
Could you let me know where ya got the camo wedding bands also….I love em:)
who was the dedication for? It went too fast to read…
sandy says:
I got the rings from St.Clair square in Fairview Heights, IL the dedication at the end was for our best man and best friend, he passed away about 3 weeks after the wedding.
ECHO says:
your wedding was one of the first episodes i saw, i fell in love with you two, you can see and feel the love you share, something that only few find, sorry for your loss, i’m glad he was there to celebrate that special day with you two. as for your rings… AMAZING you have given me great ideas!! hope all is well and you continue goosing each other for life!!
cowgirl says:
i think the coulpes who get married on cmt is a great and amazing thing that could happen at your wedding.
Terri says:
Where did yas get the camo rings from?
Thanks!
Chelsea says:
I loved the show. Your wedding was perfect. I loved the camo wedding rings from the camoring place that ya’ll got. The engraving made me laugh! Too bad I cannot get married twice. Good luck on marrige. Sorry about your friend.
Vickie May says:
How cool was this!! I finally got verified so I could comment. I so Wish I could of been there & been part of all the fun. You know my Best wishes are with you both Both always … Way To Go Dave You Gotter Done! Love you both Vickie May
MandyJean says:
where did u get ur dress. i absolutely loved it and am looking for something similar.
sandy says:
I had it made and plan on selling it. Interested?
Drunken Redneck says:
Your wedding was one hell of a drunken bash…hehehehehe
MandyJean says:
i am very interested in ur dress. what is the best way 2 get a hold of u?
Veronica Carl ( Partridge) says:
Hey i didnt get to watch your show but i heard all about it so i had to look it up you guys are still nuts its great to see you together after all these years you guys havent changed much. good luck hope it last forever.
kim says:
i’m trying to find out how to register for red neck wedding can you are someone tell me where to go i’m planing a big red neck wedding and want to try to get tom arnold to do it but don’t know where to go please someone help me and loved your wedding .thanks kim
bonnie says:
hello i am looking for the episode that has a wedding cake made using beer cans to seperate the tiers. i have a cousin who is planning his redneck sorta wedding and he was inspired by that cake. thanks bonnie